DON'T DO TO ANOTHER WHAT WE DON'T
WISH ANOTHER TO DO TO US
ESSENCE: this is the necessary setting for the foundation of our behaviour and actions.
NOT DOING TO OTHERS WHAT WE DON'T WISH OTHERS TO DO TO US IS ONE OF THE TWO MOST IMPORTANT PILLARS OF LOVE. It is very important to respect him!!!!!!!! WHEN WE RESPECT THIS RULE, WE WILL REMOVE 99% OF ALL MISTAKES, INACCURACIES, PROBLEMS, ...
It's incredible and miraculous how we can improve our lives together just by respecting this rule or FILTER.
Try to apply this rule in your dealings with others, either as an exercise or as learning, to understand the actions of others. Discuss the reasons why unpleasant situations arose and why an agreement did not work out. Never do to others what you don't wish them to do to you!!!
And this will allow us to live in LOVE, in PARADISE here and now.
It is also a very appropriate filter for everything we think, what we do, how we communicate, how we behave, …
It often doesn't make sense to tell someone that something isn't being done or shouldn't be done ... you'd better ask if he wishes you to do what he does to you, and possibly explain why.
- Would you like someone to promise you something that they know in advance that they can't keep? It is possible that it has happened to you that someone did not keep a promise. If someone only promises especially in serious matters, then it is important to address such a situation. Although it is said that you won't sadden with a promise, but by not keeping it, we end up Lying and that is no longer appropriate.)
- Do we wish someone to beat us, shout at us, treat us rude, cheat on us, rob us, ...? NO ... so let's not do it to others.
- Do you wish to do everything at home alone for everyone and no one will help you? NO ... so help.
- Do we wish someone to go to the pub all the time, spend all their money, come home drunk, or be violent, "stink", ... NO ... then don't do it.
... discuss various practical life situations together with this rule.
Here's the rule: "as you settle down, you lie down" = how you prepare your life is your responsibility, and it's up to you how you live.
It's unbelievable how we can improve our lives together by respecting only one rule, or FILTER. Try to apply this rule when dealings with other, either as exercise, or as learning to understand the actions of others, discuss the reasons why an unpleasant situations arised , why an agreement or others did not work out.
If we do not follow this filter, so probably we cannot live in LOVE.